I have this one rule in my life: " No matter what happens never let bad a person, a awful situation, a unpleasent feeling or a absolutly terrible thing change the way you are".
Basicly my rule says that maybe it the world is going to do awful things to you but never let that change you and let's be honest: it is so hard to do that.
Every time that somebody ignores me I just think: I am going to ignore them back. And despite the impulse to do it I don't. Because I am not the person who ignores other one so insted I talk to them, I smile at them, I say "hi" when they pass by on the street.
Every time my sister steals something from me I think about stealing something from her and then I don't because I am not the person that steals things from other person.
But do you know when it gets really hard? When the whole world decides to try and break you. When people break your heart, when they are not nice at all, when they make fun of you, when they tell you to give up your dreams.
I almost change in that situations, I almost let a wall built between me and the next person, I almost turn bitter like all the persons that did that before me,, and it is so hard not to change because I want to be protected from all that pain. But then I would let the world in right?! I would be letting all the bad win, I would let the fear of being hurt again sink in and all that persons that did all that to me could finally be happy because they won, they would had change me.
So every time something happens I rise above, I don't let it change me. Because what if I built that wall? What if I became sour and all sad and not nice to people and that next person that appear in my life were a good one? What if I became one of them? One of the ones who change negativly other person?
So I won't let the world change me, not this time. I am though and I can actually change the world if I don't let it change me!